My mom's friend lives in a pretty bad neighborhood because she cannot afford to live in a better one.
Not trying to sound racist here, but the general rule of "bad neighborhood" in NY means either it's shvartze-ville or hispanic-ville.
Anyway, so mom's friend isn't really frum, but she is very pro-Jewish so she has a family Rav.
One day when she was speaking to this Rav, he said to her "You should get out of that neighborhood before your daughter comes home with a shvartze"
Aside from that being just a general disturbing (and outright racist) statment, I find it stupid as well for the following reasons
1- the girl is quite young (under 10)
2- both her kids go to yeshiva.
3- she doesn't allow them to socialize with anyone in the neighborhood, and she's super over-protective.
HOW THE HELL IS THIS RABBI PROPOSING THIS GIRL WILL END UP WITH A SHVARTZE AND WHY THE HELL IS HE MENTIONING IT WHEN SHE IS SO YOUNG?
Anyway, so he made that woman cry.
I honestly don't think I would've cried. I would've found a new Rabbi.